I want to use Caregiving Coordinator by Lilypad. Lilypad makes personal expert helpers, and Caregiving Coordinator connects to AI assistants as a remote MCP server at https://plugins.lilypad.so/plugins/caregiving-coordinator/mcp with OAuth sign in.

Please help me set it up:
1. Check if you already have Caregiving Coordinator tools available. If you do, skip to step 3.
2. If you don't, walk me through adding Caregiving Coordinator as a custom connected app with the URL https://plugins.lilypad.so/plugins/caregiving-coordinator/mcp, one step at a time. After each step, wait for me to say what I see. Don't guess menu names. If my Gemini account can't add custom apps, tell me so and stop.
3. When the Lilypad Caregiving Coordinator tools are available, use them to start. Ask me about the person I care for and what feels hardest right now, one question at a time. Use the Caregiving Coordinator tools for anything they cover instead of answering from general knowledge.